Monday, 24 October 2011

so happy together

Growing up in a small coastal town as I did, life was for the most part all about surfing. Who did, who didn't, where, how (regular or goofy foot / boatman or doormat) etc.
After my parents gave up driving me round the coast to a nice English-speaking private primary school every day, I finished my junior school days in our small verkrampt village school and finally, joyfully, moved on to the High School in the next town, a mythical place swarming with gorgeous surfers and the tantalising promise of a real teenage life (real = Beverley Hills 90210, of course).

We already knew, on our first terrifyingly intimidating day, to look out for 3 big boys in particular. The creme of the surfer crop whose reputations as bad boy surfer party dudes had preceded them down the coast to our little school.
I think, and hope, I'll never forget that moment, queuing up outside our new year room, all outsized school blazers and knobbly knees, when a whisper spread down the row: 'Here they come! Here they come!' Girls and boys alike turned to watch in awe as the 3 of them strode past, achingly cool with their nonchalance and flippy hair. Two blondes and a brunette, they were the closest to celebrity most of us had ever come, and right there on that spot I had an epiphany: the dark-haired one, he would be mine.

And get this: he is.

We may have celebrated our 8 year wedding anniversary earlier this month, but today is the big one: 
20 years together.

Twenty.
Years.
!

7 comments:

  1. Oh wow! Brilliant. 20 years? Well done - surfer dude and dudette! (Your not the only one that uses outmoded phrases) Loved reading this... xx

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  2. Chaaaarrrrlll :) Twenty years - good lord. Grandchildren in the next 20 maybe?

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  3. Sweet. Congratulations!

    Anna

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  4. Hehe, it is just a fact that when you see the person you are meant to share your life with, something inside you clicks and the world becomes a wonderful place. Enjoy this special day!

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  5. Congratulations! Its great to hear that there are some real marraiges out there. My husband and I met through online dating and I thought this would be a quick romance, he, on the other hand, had a different plan! 3 years later and we are now married with baby on the way!

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  6. Thanks everyone :)

    And Leanne, I love hearing stories of happy online dating couples - how cool!

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